In all likelihood, you are already aware of some behaviours of people which can cause trouble to others, especially if you have had some experience of dealing with such individuals. In fact, you do not have to go through it in practice as you can just understand them before you actually start interacting with people. This article will show you why it is important and how you can protect yourself.
Become aware of behavioural patterns
Since the day one of our learning about earth, people and vast other topics from our school life, we are heavily shaped by the early aspects of our life including the environmental factors. We are taught about various aspects of topics this world or history has to offer. Then we reach to the point of racing for grades, the higher the grades are, the merrier and merit of a person. Yet, when these merits go out there in the real world, we find them stumped by various other aspects the life has to offer. From there, either this person develop a mentality of adopt to changes and learn things on the go or back in the comfort zone drawing out the boundary for his or her life.
In most cases, as a social being, a human, we are bound to go out and socialize one point or another. This is an innate cravings that must meet as a human. Unless, the person is no longer considered a human but a sociopath or psychopath.
But we often failed to recognize people until a time comes when we recognize a true nature of a people. We feel deceived, hurt and lot other emotions come in as a surprise. These are things if are identified as early as possible the better for us.
Fortunately, there are tons of benevolent people out there, blogging, vlogging about those lessons based on subjective or collective experience inside a group of people who had the similar experience and share them with the world. So does the various professionals who spent their entire lifetime studying and experimenting with various aspects of this world and people that can be enlisted in the next generations academic curriculum.
Now, there are no concrete points that covers up the whole human nature but there are some common look out points to keep your eyes on. We are going to talk about some of them today.
Others failure a sheer joy
This point is pretty prevalent in people who definitely carry around a good intention. Most often people will have sympathetic feelings towards people who failed at something from achieving or their loss, be it as a feeling or going there and putting your hands on their shoulders.
Still, in the case of malignant people, this becomes a reason to draw a wide smile on their faces. Even most horrible one is, putting a face of sadness and compassion in front of those poor person suffering, only to smile behind their back. A pure RED FLAG guys!
These people are just always right. No matter how well and obviously it is laid out that they are not right. They will argue and will go to a long extent to prove their points that they were right, even when they are obviously failing to do so. They will draw a most ridiculous conclusion over it that makes no sense. These people will also feel attacked if you try to point out their mistakes or try to show them the right way. These things can make them feel that their ego is threatened and will show you various other ways that can damage you eventually one way or another. They are always flawless!
World of hatred
The best part of this point is it is way easier to recognize this sign over others because it is so fast and up front. You will find these people will always have something to hate. The way they can hate people it is flawless. The victory of hating people or things over other points so much that this gives you a concrete loud signal to stay away. A funny example would be how such people can turn a beautiful sunset into an ugly experience. Only if the sun could hear, it would go down twice faster than the normal times.
While these points are absolutely common signs out there defined by professionals, there are and always be points that only your eyes can catch. In that case, make a good judgment and make the best move and enlist as your own red flag!